Be In The Arena
From a conversation today, a friend asking me how I make my decisions, as I’m currently in action mode and making a lot happen. Here’s some behind the scene [the mind]
PS. in the spirit of the year end, I’m celebrating you and gifting you a little something, scroll down to get it.
“What’s your plan with all that you’re doing?”
My reply was - “No plans, just being in the arena”
No plans, isn’t the whole truth, I have:
A long term vision that is open to evolution.
The knowing of the feeling I want in my life - and I get coached to keep this fresh within me. - more on this further down.
An unshakable belief in myself and my capacity - thank you for all the confidence I’ve built and nurtured till today.
The next small step is to take me forward and keep the momentum going.
There’s no fixed plan. I’m tuning a lot into intuition ( that thousand of years old compass within you that you fine tune daily) and following my wild heart desires.
Yes, it’s not the traditional society’s way of doing things.
I tried that, felt empty inside, exhausted, like I was going nowhere and completely out of place.
I’m doing things in an organic way. Life feels easy, even when working on things I don’t want to, it’s easy and fun sometimes. I feel fulfilled, energised, and intrinsically motivated.
ON THE FEELING YOU WANT TO FEEL
Coaching tip:
Don’t wait to get the thing to give you the feeling.
Give yourself the permission to feel what you want the thing to give you right now, and then go after it.
WHY?
If you wait for the thing to give you the feeling, SPOILER ALERT you’ll never feel the feeling.
Example, I’ll feel worthy when I get the promotion, the promotion comes and you still don’t feel worthy, you need another promotion.
I’ll feel beautiful when I lose 10kg, you lose the 10kg, and you still don’t feel beautiful.
The ONLY THING that can give you that feeling is YOU. You need to give yourself that feeling, give yourself permission to feel that feeling.
Don’t take my word for it, go ahead and chase that thing, and once you get it, let me know if you feel what you thought that thing was going to give you.
If you want to avoid the long journey to reaching that thing and not feel what you’ve wanted, send me a DM and let’s talk about working together to make sure that doesn’t happen.
BACK TO THE TOPIC - be in the arena
Over the past 2 years, I haven’t been in the arena, I’ve learned, trained and coached plenty, but I have not put myself out there publicly. I’ve kept myself out of the arena. No more. In the arena, I head. No certainty of the outcome, but I am here, and here to stay.
Can you resonate with my story? What parts do you resonate with?
How are you keeping yourself out of the arena?
What’s one thing you can do in the next 24hrs of reading this to put you in the arena, however small that action may be?
Welcome into the arena, I cheer you on for choosing yourself and leaping in.
🤸♀️🎉😍SPECIAL FOR DECEMBER 2024✨🎉🤩
4 FREE webinars coming up in December - pick the one/s you want to attend, click on the title for more info and registration.
2024 is coming to an end and I want to celebrate you. Yep, you reading this right now. One more year of showing up as the beautiful soul that you are. In the spirit of celebrating I've got a gift for you. One or Four as you wish you get to pick, see what's pulling forward.
No. 1
3 PRINCIPLES TO A 'YES AND' LIFE
No more compromising what fills your soul for your current priority. I know that there is another way of doing this. I've left the 'EITHER/OR' world and created my own 'YES AND' life. You can do it too. PS. you already have all that you need within you. Getting someone to guide you, like me, can get you there faster and with greater ease.
No. 2
BREAKING BARRIERS: Time, Money, and Self-Worth
What your telling yourself that's holding you back and a way to remove each.
No. 3
One of my favourites, every time I use this tool with a client they leave with a massive smile on their face, feeling confident, knowing which next action to take and making it happen.
Don't just take my word for it, try it on yourself.
No. 4
STARTING 2025 WITH A BANGING PLAN
your 90 day goal blueprint
Simple process to creating a plan to make action taking easy
The investment, these are all free. It's investing your time, and action.