Hi you, I’m Tara. I’ve grown up being the good girl that did everything to please everyone around me. I had to be perfect to feel that I was loved. And yet I felt that there was something missing within.

Little signs would creep out

At 15, I was told that I had to make a choice between playing rugby sevens and theatre. I loved both and know I could do both, which I did.

At 17, I was suggested to read Rich Dad, Poor Dad, my first contact with personal development. I took away the mindset of shifting from “I can’t” to “how can I?” - There where no more problems in my life, just solutions ;)

Then followed years of trying to fit in. Trying to be what I thought my family expected of me. Massive failed, I never could focused on anything as it was not for me and therefore I didn’t have the willingness to see it through. There was this nagging feeling inside of me telling that is was not for me.

At 26, I started focusing on myself: I chose to give my time to volunteering for the first time and I started taking free online courses learning new skills. That’s when I read/heard : learn from those who’ve already done what you want. 

At 27, I reached out to a family friend who was doing something that I wanted. I asked what resources I could have a look at to take me along on this journey. He suggested 2 podcasts which I listened to every new episode. This is where my growth shot off.

Today, at 36, I’m living my life for myself, I feel integrated in all areas of my life even while I’m still working on some. I know that anything I choose to create I can make happen with ease - ZERO HUSTLE - and I’m loving every bit of the journey.

PS. a page is about to turn, an international relocation is coming up - You can read my journey in the blog :)